Lord Father, I’m sorry for being hard hearted, that’s why I detect it in others.  They are judging others based on worldly standards.  I’m glad I’m softer now (Ezekial 36:26).  That’s what You want, for us to be aware of Your desire in every situation.  And to see them as You do, love them, admonish them if needed.  Treat them with kindness.

^{Ezekial 36:26 (NIV)} I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.